I can't tell you how many times I have heard the words " I was so busy" come out of a boyfriend's or a males mouth as to why he didn't call/text/or email back. Not only have I heard them , but my girlfriends telling me the same thing. I can't express enough to these men that "YOU ARE NOT THE PRESIDENT ELECT" you can't possibly be that busy every single day to not pick up the phone, write an email, or text "just wanted to say hi" to someone you are seeing/liking/etc.
I just don't buy it, never did and never will. If you were so busy, did you not have the time to go to the men's room? Do you have one hand on the keyboard typing those important emails or on the phone making those important business calls with the other hand holding your genitalia urinating into an empty Gatorade container you leave next to your desk because you can't get up? Are you doing this all simultaneously while eating lunch?
Now I am not doubting that there will be those days when you are really that busy, god knows I have had those days, but there are those men who use it daily. They are busy, however they have time to update their Facebook status's, read the paper, check the scores of games on their phones, but they just don't have the time to say "hi" to you.
Men have the preconceived notion that women are so complicated and difficult, that we need so mush more than we really do. A simple "Just wanted to say hi" would 100% do it in my book! There must be women out there who want to talk all day to men ruining the "just wanted to say hi" for the rest of us. A text conversation is fine for a few minutes, but most of us are not looking to spend countless hours on the phone discussing the world's events. I just want you know I thought of ya, and likewise!
So men, don't be afraid to "just say hi" we are not all going to bombard you with mundane stories of daily events!!!
2 comments:
Maybe he's "just not that into you"?
Not the case all the time. I have heard you say it to your wife a million times..are you not that into her?
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