Men love saying "I was so busy"

Why are men afraid to open the door to a daily "HI"?

I can't tell you how many times I have heard the words " I was so busy" come out of a boyfriend's or a males mouth as to why he didn't call/text/or email back. Not only have I heard them , but my girlfriends telling me the same thing. I can't express enough to these men that "YOU ARE NOT THE PRESIDENT ELECT" you can't possibly be that busy every single day to not pick up the phone, write an email, or text "just wanted to say hi" to someone you are seeing/liking/etc.

I just don't buy it, never did and never will. If you were so busy, did you not have the time to go to the men's room? Do you have one hand on the keyboard typing those important emails or on the phone making those important business calls with the other hand holding your genitalia urinating into an empty Gatorade container you leave next to your desk because you can't get up? Are you doing this all simultaneously while eating lunch?


Now I am not doubting that there will be those days when you are really that busy, god knows I have had those days, but there are those men who use it daily. They are busy, however they have time to update their Facebook status's, read the paper, check the scores of games on their phones, but they just don't have the time to say "hi" to you.

Men have the preconceived notion that women are so complicated and difficult, that we need so mush more than we really do. A simple "Just wanted to say hi" would 100% do it in my book! There must be women out there who want to talk all day to men ruining the "just wanted to say hi" for the rest of us. A text conversation is fine for a few minutes, but most of us are not looking to spend countless hours on the phone discussing the world's events. I just want you know I thought of ya, and likewise!


So men, don't be afraid to "just say hi" we are not all going to bombard you with mundane stories of daily events!!!

What Happened to all the blondes?

Spending allot of my time in the cities "Night Life" it is hard to ignore the fact that there are less and less blondes out there. When did being blonde go out of style and dark hair take over?

Seems like ever since Eva Longoria made her wave in the entertainment scene from that God awful show of hers and became a fan favorite of most of the male demographic in America more and more girls have rushed to their local hair salon or Walgreens to become brunettes, or even straight black. The days of the long flowing blonde haired Pamela Anderson's who graced the walls of so many college dorm rooms are long gone, and quite frankly, I don't get it?

After spending countless hours on Myspace and Facebook looking at pictures, the number of girls with dark hair is astronomical! I am not just talking about those dark haired ethnic beauties, but girls who look as "All American" as the day is long with jet black hair. "I'm not into blondes" has become a built in phrase with men of all generations, I hear it said in social circles more times than you can imagine! Websites consisting of pics of "blonde" vs, "brunette" are all over the Internet, with the "brunette" coming out with the coveted title of "sexiest" the majority of the time. It's hard to pick girls out of the crowd in clubs and lounges in the sea of dark hair, they just all blend in with each other. Can it be attested to today's youth having no creativity, that they just follow the crowd? It's inevitable that there will always be the play it safers, the people who follow mainstream, but this dark hair obsession is overwhelming! I feel like we are living in a SciFi movie, as if Aliens are planting them all over. The dark haired Stepford Wives take Boston by storm, all mirroring each other. Are Girls that afraid to be who they are, worried they won't fit in?

I have spent the last 20 years of my life as a blonde, and I cant deny that I have got the itch to go darker at times for whatever the reason but when I get down to really thinking about it I say to myself "don't fix what ain't broken" !

You naturally dark haired beauties used to be special, different, not so much anymore with all the club rats running to Walgreens for their box of back dye!

Oh and to those men who are "not into blondes" I have this to say. I am sure you wouldn't banish Pamela Anderson or Jenna Jameson from your bed for being "BLONDE"